Holidays for single over 60s have never been more varied. Whether you are newly single, widowed, divorced or simply have friends who never want to go to the same places as you, travelling on your own terms can be one of the most rewarding things you do in later life. You choose where to go, what to see and how fast to do it. And, if you would like company, there are plenty of ways to find it along the way. This guide covers the main types of holiday that suit older solo travellers, how to keep costs fair, how to stay safe and well, and how a trip can open the door to new friendships or even romance.
It is written for men and women in the UK and the USA, and for family members helping a parent plan their first trip alone.
Many people put off travelling because they have no one to go with. It is a shame, because going solo has real advantages:
If you are feeling a little nervous, that is completely normal. Start small, with a short break close to home, and build from there.
There is no single right way to travel alone. Here are the main options, with what each one suits best.
On an escorted tour, a tour manager looks after the itinerary, transport, hotels and many meals. You travel with a group, so there is always someone to chat to at dinner, but you can still head off on your own during free time. Many companies run tours specifically for solo travellers or for mature travellers, which means everyone in the group is in the same boat. These tours are a gentle first step if you have never travelled alone before.
Walking, painting, photography, cookery, gardens, history, wildlife and music holidays all attract people who share a passion. Having a common interest takes the pressure off conversation, because you already have plenty to talk about. If you enjoy a hobby at home, there is almost certainly a holiday built around it. Our guide to making friends after retirement has more ideas for turning an interest into new connections.
Cruises are popular with older solo travellers because you unpack once and the scenery comes to you. Ships usually have social events, talks and shared dining options, so it is easy to meet people. River cruises tend to be smaller and calmer, with a stop most days. Check whether the ship offers cabins designed for one person.
A few nights in a city, a market town or by the coast can be a confidence-building way to try solo travel over 60 without committing to a long trip. Choose a well-located hotel, plan one or two things each day and leave room for wandering. Rail breaks work well too, as you can relax and watch the countryside go by.
Some people like to give something back or learn a new skill while they travel, from conservation projects to language courses. These trips often bring together people of all ages and are a meaningful way to see a place from the inside.
For more general ideas about where older travellers like to go, see our OAP holidays guide.
The biggest frustration for many solo travellers is the "single supplement", an extra charge for having a double room to yourself. It is not always avoidable, but these tips can help:
A little preparation means you can relax and enjoy yourself once you arrive.
Good travel insurance matters at any age, and it becomes even more important later in life. Always declare any medical conditions honestly, as an undeclared condition can mean a claim is refused. Compare the level of medical cover, cancellation cover and any age limits before you buy. UK travellers heading to Europe should also carry a Global Health Insurance Card, although it is not a replacement for insurance. Our simple OAP travel insurance guide explains what to look for, and Age UK and Citizens Advice also have helpful general guidance.
Many solo travellers come home with new friends, and some with a new someone special. A few simple habits make it easier:
If you would love to find a travel companion before you go, a dating or friendship site for mature singles is a good place to start. Mention in your profile that you love travelling and where you would like to go next. It is a wonderful conversation starter, and our tips on writing a dating profile over 60 show how to bring it to life. Take things slowly, though: get to know someone well, and meet for a few relaxed first dates close to home, before you think about going away together.
If a parent or grandparent is planning their first solo holiday, encouragement goes a long way. Offer to help compare holidays, check insurance and set up a simple way to keep in touch, such as a family group chat or a daily photo. Try not to take over the planning, though. Choosing the trip is part of the fun, and a successful holiday can be a real boost to their confidence.
It depends on what you enjoy. Escorted group tours, special interest holidays, river and ocean cruises and short independent breaks all suit older solo travellers. Group and interest-based trips are a good choice if you would like built-in company.
Look for solo-friendly holidays with no single supplement or a reduced one, travel outside the busy season, consider a room share on a group tour and compare what is included in the full price before you book.
Yes, with sensible preparation. Check the official travel advice for your destination, buy suitable travel insurance and declare any medical conditions, share your itinerary with someone at home and keep in touch while you are away.
Very often. Group tours, cruises and special interest holidays make it easy to chat to fellow travellers. If you would like a travel companion, getting to know someone on a dating site for mature singles first, and meeting close to home before travelling together, is a sensible approach.
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